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Our sailing journey…an update.

I just realized we’ve done a pretty crappy job updating our little travel map. I had *planned* to do this more regularly. For our own sake more than anything. We really want to be able to look back and see where all we’ve been and how far we’ve come on this sailing journey of ours.

So seeing as we’ve *just about* made our way through the Bahamas, what better time for an update?

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^^a very general idea of where we’ve stopped along the way.^^

Here’s a peek at our journey {by the numbers} so far…

  • 836…nautical miles sailed (that’s a rough estimate based on our GPS “tracks”)
  • 312…cans of beer we started with. ;)) Only 30 remain. :((
  • 83…days as real “cruisers.”
  • 61…nights at anchor (plus 17 on a mooring ball, mostly in Boot Key Harbor, and 5 nights in a marina. Anchoring is free!)
  • 18…islands of the Bahamas visited.
  • 17…fish caught (plus 1 garbage bag and 1 massive wad of seaweed)
  • 7…loads of laundry washed. Pretty good for almost three months!
  • 3…falls off the dinghy for Oliver. (1 each for Jereme and I)
  • 1…dinghy lost. And then recovered.
  • 1…tank of propane used. And we cook almost every meal on the boat.
  • 0…need to plug in to shore power (electricity). Yay for solar panels!

It sure looks like a lot on the map, but I suppose 800 miles doesn’t really seem like too far of a distance, does it? I mean, you can drive that far in one lousy day! But on a sailboat, that’s pretty darn far. At least for us!

We have seen so many gorgeous islands here in the Bahamas. >>Some<< a little more special than others. ;)) And most of which we would never in a million years have had the opportunity to experience if we weren’t traveling by boat.

We are now super excited to keep this party moving as we head to Turks + Caicos!!! Which should be happening any day now. After that, we will be heading to the Dominican Republic, and then to Puerto Rico…where we will likely hunker down for the main chunk of Hurricane Season, and then continue on down the eastern Caribbean thereafter.

I cannot wait to see what else this journey has in store!

>>Thanks for visiting LAHOWIND sailing blog! We’d love for you to get to know us and follow our story as we attempt to navigate a whole new world of sailing, as we cruise the Bahamas + Caribbean.

BillJune 11, 2014 - 11:50 am

Awesome trip so far and congratulations on your engagement 🙂

Jennifer - Luna SeaJune 11, 2014 - 12:14 pm

I always love your graphics. And now I’ve been inspired to finally update our blog! Thanks for the updates – it’s great following along!

EricaJune 11, 2014 - 1:34 pm

You guys are killin’ it!!!

BreezyJune 11, 2014 - 2:02 pm

>>>1…engagement ring!

Congratulations! On cruising and on the engagement! Enjoy everything that is being engaged. It’s easy dive into planning, but this is the only time you’ll call each other fiancé, and it’s pretty fun 🙂

Mark and Cindy - s/v Cream PuffJune 11, 2014 - 6:12 pm

How many Diet Cokes are left? We remember gazillions being loaded.

Also, is there some safe haven hurricane hole in Puerto Rico? You are the 2nd people this month that have told me they plan to summer there. We have always thought that Grenada and South or North of NC were the only options. Am interested to hear your prospective on this.

Mark and Cindy
s/v Cream Puff
http://www.creampuff.us

Jesse K on s/v SmittyJune 13, 2014 - 12:05 pm

I am with Mark and Cindy, I can’t wait to here more about waiting out hurricane season on PR. That could really change our plans if we use that as an option.

Really jealous of your 800 miles up here in the north. I can’t wait to visit many of these same islands. Only 16 more months to go. Seems like such a long time 🙁

Fair winds,

Jesse

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Tuesday Tell-Tales.

Seven years.

I can’t even believe it. And I’ve clearly already failed at my fiancé duties because I FORGOT our 7-year *dating* anniversary. Which happened to be last week. Whoopsie! But better late than never, right? ;))

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Happy (dating) anniversary to my handsome fiancé! (i love saying that.) The past seven years with you have been a dream. Although I would love to bottle up this very special time in our lives right now, I truly cannot wait to spend the rest of my years with you…and experience SO many more awesome adventures.

Here’s to seven-TY more!

xoxo.

>>Thanks for visiting LAHOWIND sailing blog! We’d love for you to get to know us and follow our story as we attempt to navigate a whole new world of sailing, as we cruise the Bahamas + Caribbean.

Kim SmithJune 11, 2014 - 2:09 am

Happy anniversary! Interesting enough, Randy and I just celebrated our 7 year dating anniversary on June 3rd. Congrats to your engagement!

Beautiful beaches of Conception Island + Rum Cay.

(Conception Island + Rum Cay, Bahamas)

We made quick two-night stops in both Conception Island and Rum Cay.

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^^the morning of our departure from Conception Island…and I finally busted out the camera.^^

And somehow, we left both islands having taken only a few photos. :((( I cannot believe it either. That is SO unlike me.

We headed back into open water on Wednesday, May 28th for the journey from Cape Santa Maria, Long Island to Conception Island.

Conception Island is an uninhabited island in the Bahamas known for its seabirds and turtles. Unfortunately, it rained our entire full day on the island. ALL. DAY. LONG.

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^^so many seabirds on the island. Can you spot the cute little yellow guy in the tree?^^

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^^perfect unspoiled beaches of Conception Island.^^

Thank god for a stocked boat and my Kindle. Jer and I hunkered down below deck, and since we had zero wifi on such a remote island, we pretty much just read and cooked. …pancakes for breakfast, egg salad sammies for lunch, and BBQ chicken, grilled zucchini, and yellow rice for dinner! Not too shabby, if I do say so myself.

There was a small break in the weather around 4PM, so we hightailed it over to the infamous Southampton “skyscraper” Reef to snorkel. The reef is just on the north side of the island, where 20 to 30 foot coral heads dot the ocean floor for two and a quarter miles. The island is known for a large cove of dead, but still intact and quite beautiful elk-horn coral you can swim through. We drove the dinghy up-current to the top of the reef area, hopped out with our snorkel gear, and simply floated back downstream while swimming from coral skyscraper to skyscraper. …That is, until an eight-foot black tip shark joined our party. :((

It always happens.

Either a barracuda or shark makes an appearance.

At that point, we were done with our snorkel adventure for the day.

And after a fun little happy hour on a neighboring boat in the anchorage, we called it a night and headed to Rum Cay the next day.

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^^i think this might be the closest to shore we’ve ever anchored.^^

The trip to Rum Cay was an interesting one. ;)) Beating into the wind with six to eight foot waves and a few squalls popping up along the way, doesn’t really make for the most pleasant sail. It was slow going the entire way, but we made it in about 6 hours and anchored directly in front of the government dock at Port Nelson. …where we got to learn our fancy new >>swell bridle<< technique. The anchorage is a little choppy and affected by ocean swell coming around the point.

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^^pretty awesome view from the government dock.^^

Rum Cay is a very quaint island with only 67 people living there full time. We got the lowdown on the island and a great golf cart tour from the new owner of the Sumner Point Marina. He took pity on us walking to town in the blazing sun and offered us a lift.

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At one time, the marina had been an awesome little spot to stop over on your way through the Bahamas, but it took a severe beating during Hurricane Irene and hasn’t been the same ever since. Boats have continued to tie up to the marinas docks (for free) for the past few years, while the rest of the marina/facilities have been out of commission. However, the new owner has plans in the works to rehab the dilapidated facility and get it back in ship shape.

Regardless, the island is quite charming and definitely worth stopping at to check out…

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>>Thanks for visiting LAHOWIND sailing blog! We’d love for you to get to know us and follow our story as we attempt to navigate a whole new world of sailing, as we cruise the Bahamas + Caribbean.

[…] turns out, we ended up making an unplanned return trip to the island after leaving >>Rum Cay.<<  Wherever the wind takes you…isn’t that what they say?! […]

Birthday recap. Plus an engagement!!!

(Cape Santa Maria, Long Island, Bahamas)

Two mondays ago (May 26th), we celebrated my 32nd birthday! And let’s not lie, thirty-two seems kinda scary. It’s halfway to 35, which is mid-thirties. Which is scary.

But I was excited to turn 32. It just felt nice. And boy oh boy was I right!

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Before I go too far, let me back up a hair and tell you how the day started.

The morning of my 32nd birthday, Jereme checked us into the Cape Santa Maria Resort for two nights! T-W-O!!!

After living on a boat for two MONTHS, I cannot even begin to explain how awesome a stay in a resort sounded. …hot showers with unlimited water, cold air conditioning, regular flush toilets, and cushy resort beds.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!!!

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We were able to check right into our adorable beach bungalow at 9AM (which was pretty much the best news ever since the usual checkin is 3PM…it’s like we got a whole extra day out of it). The little cottage we checked into (bungalow #1) was so adorably quaint and situated right on the beach, which by the way, is one of the prettiest white sand beaches we have seen in all of the Bahamas, I kid you not.

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We spent the first half of my birthday taking hot showers and lounging in the cold A/C! I even blow-dried and flat ironed my hair just because I could. And it felt great!

Oh and side note, the resort also offers guests free use of a washer/dryer! Can you believe that? I may or may not have dinghied over a few loads because why wouldn’t I wash all of our sheets and towels from the boat while staying at a resort? ;))

Back to my birthday. ;))

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After relaxing in the room for a bit, Jereme made us some fabulous frozen margaritas (yes, we brought our boat blender and tequila to the resort) and then he tricked me out of the cottage and down to the beach by telling me he needed help moving the dinghy. Sneaky guy.

We started walking down the beach and that’s when I turned around to see where he was and he had gotten down on one knee!!!!!!!!!!

TO PROPOSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

^^just engaged!!!^^

^^am i the luckiest girl in the world or what? I get to marry this guy!^^

With an insanely gorgeous diamond engagement ring! That he has been hiding on the boat this whole time! Can you believe that???????????? Me either. But it really happened.

:)))))))))))))

And of course I screamed “YES!” …Among other things. Because I couldn’t believe this was really happening, especially here in one of the most beautiful places I’ve ever seen. And then I cried, of course.

And then we celebrated with a bottle of champagne in the hotel room.

And skyped our parents and all of our sisters.

And then headed over to the resort’s restaurant for more food and drinks.

And that’s how the best birthday {plus an engagement} happened. It was PERFECT! …The perfect spot. The perfect day. The perfect everything.

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And then we still had another whole day left at the resort! To relax some more, relish in our engagement excitement, and enjoy the finer things in life…like more hot showers and clean, straight hair! ;)) Oh and I of course found the time to paint my horrid fingernails. Lol. They were looking pretty crappy next to my shiny new ring.

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Jereme, thank you for such a wonderful day, amazing memories, and such a truly special engagement. I cannot wait to marry you and spend the rests of our lives together!

Oh and I would hate to leave out the fact that Jereme also got me an extra little birthday present (as if he needed to do anything else after the proposal + resort)! …He bought me a pizza cutter! Hah! For those of you who might recall my little >>meltdown<< over accidentally selling ours way back in October at our big garage sale, you know how awesome this birthday present is and I’m still wondering when and how he found one for sale here in the out islands. ;)) He’s the best!

>>Thanks for visiting LAHOWIND sailing blog! We’d love for you to get to know us and follow our story as we attempt to navigate a whole new world of sailing, as we cruise the Bahamas + Caribbean.

AmyJune 5, 2014 - 2:43 am

So many congrats!! what a wonderful, special day!

AprilJune 5, 2014 - 12:32 pm

Congratulations!!!!

DonJune 5, 2014 - 12:44 pm

Congrats! Been following your adventures and so happy for both of you!

LisaJune 5, 2014 - 1:04 pm

Love the story, since I did not know the details. That’s what I miss, being able to talk to you every day and hearing everything about your day!!! I love you, Mom

Skelton CrewJune 5, 2014 - 1:09 pm

LOVE this recap! So.Awesome. Congrats again, now let the planning begin…I’m assuming?? 😉 ~Jackie

Laura AdamsJune 5, 2014 - 1:23 pm

Congrats!! I just started following your blog and I love it. You two are adorable and your photos are fabulous. There’s nothing like sharing life with your best friend. Enjoy! I can’t wait until my husband & I make it to the Bahamas! For now it’s the marina life. ;-/

MelissaJune 5, 2014 - 2:51 pm

Love love love!!! So happy for you guys!! Congratulations ❤️❤️

MarlenaJune 5, 2014 - 4:18 pm

So great to read about this! I got engaged in a similar fashion (minus the sailboat adventure!) and am so happy for you two. Now, if you could add a link to the brand/style of all your cute outfits (sundresses, coverups, etc) that would be awesome 🙂 Keep smiling and enjoy the ride, err sail.

JessieJune 5, 2014 - 4:54 pm

A million happy wishes from the crew of The Red Thread! We, too, had an “engagement sailcation” (as we now refer to our 2-week engagement sailing trip), and seeing the glow on your faces brought back fond memories. CONGRATULATIONS on a very special milestone in your life together…and belated happy birthday, too! ~Jessie

Mark and Cindy - s/v Cream PuffJune 5, 2014 - 8:20 pm

CONGRATS! Both so very happy for you two.

We will be married 30 years next month. We married when we were 10 years old 🙂 Wouldn’t change a thing. Life is soooo good.

Hugs and kisses to Oliver

Mark and Cindy
s/v Cream Puff
http://www.creampuff.us

DeborahJune 6, 2014 - 1:51 am

So happy for you two! Best, best, best engagement story I have ever read!
Deborah -svwrightaway

LewisJune 6, 2014 - 12:56 pm

Congrats! Very nice.

Cape Santa Maria Beach ResortJune 6, 2014 - 5:21 pm

Congratulations on your engagement Kim! I’m so happy we could host your special day! Come back soon, we’d love to see you two again 🙂

AlyseJune 6, 2014 - 7:12 pm

I’ve been following your blog for a little over a month (after my hubs and I decided to dive into sailing lessons and I found you on Pinterest). I LOVE watching you guys cruise around, and honestly had no idea you weren’t already married, you two are SO CUTE!! I’m super happy for you. Congrats!! It’s meant to be! And what a happy way to do it. 🙂

BrittanyJune 8, 2014 - 4:57 pm

Wow-wee!! Congratulations – what a beautiful story, ring and setting!! So happy for your both…and way to go Jereme for keeping that treasure a secret for so long in a small boat no less… That could not have been easy!! I can’t wait to read about wedding planning and all that fun stuff!! Keep up the awesome work 🙂

Jesse K on s/v SmittyJune 9, 2014 - 12:27 pm

Congrats! Sounds like a pretty awesome birthday.

Aubri GraybealJune 9, 2014 - 1:20 pm

Best. Post. Ever.

Love you guys!!!!

kathygloJune 9, 2014 - 9:01 pm

I have been stopping by your blog, love all the beautiful pictures! Just wanted to say a sincere CONGRATULATIONS! on your engagement, you are a great couple, and will have a wonderful marriage!

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Lara SpragueJune 13, 2014 - 8:07 pm

Jereme and Kim! Hi!!!
So I have a confession to make. I don’t think Cole or I realized that when you told us at happy hour that you had just gotten engaged, that it had happened just then! Right there on the beach! I am going to blame the awesome Long Island alcohol on that one.
We should have purchased that round for you!
I’m so glad we got to meet you, I will be living vicariously through you both on your blog and via Cole’s Facebook.
We wish you both the very best!
Lara and Cole

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DOugAugust 30, 2014 - 9:34 am

Congrats!!!

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LAHOWINDApril 15, 2015 - 4:10 am

When the boat’s a rockin…

(Rum Cay, Bahamas)

I have two words that are a complete game changer when it comes to crappy nights in rolly anchorages…

SWELL. BRIDLE.

:))))))))))))

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^^see how the bridle is going to the back of the boat.^^

We can finally say goodbye to those god awful rolly nights at anchor caused by ocean swell. You know, the ones where the darn boat will NOT stop rolling from side to side. You feel like you are on a horrible amusement park roller coaster ride that just won’t come to an end.

And try sleeping through that crap. Not fun. Ugh, those nights are the worst!

We *were* some of those lucky duck sailors who never needed to use a swell bridle until our visit to Rum Cay. Shoot, we didn’t even know what the heck it was. And actually, it was our visit to Conception Island and two super rolly nights worth of sleep (or shall I say lack of sleep) that prompted us to give just about anything a try once we arrived at Rum Cay and experienced the same darn rolly polly anchor motion.

Luckily, Jereme had literally just turned to page 133 while reading Bruce Van Sant’s Passages South and came across his notes on using a swell bridle here in Rum Cay. What are the odds?

A swell bridle is great to use in open harbors/anchorages where swell can sweep around the points. Oftentimes, that ocean swell comes barreling at the boat from a different direction than the actual wind (and you almost always anchor in the direction of the wind). So when the boat is anchored and facing into the wind, but the ocean swell is pushing against the side of the boat, it causes you to roll. And roll. And roll. Nonstop. It really stinks.

So instead of sitting miserably on the boat for another night, we followed the instructions and grabbed a boat’s length of line and tied a rolling hitch to our rode at the bow. We then cleated off the other end of the line to our stern, and let out enough scope until we were facing the swell. This technique can cause you to pitch (think boat moving up and down but from the front to the back) instead of roll (side to side). Pitching (in our opinion) is a much more comfortable feeling. It took a few “tweaks” to get the bridle length right on each side so as to point our boat in just the right direction.

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^^you can see how the swell bridle is holding us on a different angle…whereas the cat in the background is facing windward.^^

And boy am I thrilled to report that it worked like a charm! Halle-freakin-lujah!

We also did a quick google search for “swell bridle” before attempting our own install based on the simple sketch and one paragraph worth of text in Van Sant’s book, and stumbled upon >>this awesome post from one of our very favorite bloggers, Brittany over at Windtraveler<<. Looks like they were in a very close spot to us (Calabash Bay, Long Island) when they first had to bust out the swell bridle. Brittany’s instructions and explanation of swell are super helpful!

The only downside to the swell bridle is boat temp. Adding the swell bridle causes you to no longer face into the wind, and therefore, you lose out on the massive airflow that typically comes in through the overhead hatches. It’s a trade off we are willing to make! We’re cranking our little boat fans on full blast instead. ;))

 

 

 

Jennifer - Luna SeaJune 4, 2014 - 12:31 pm

Oooh, what a great tip! I need to figure out a way to remember this – AND will go check out Windtraveler’s tips as well. Thanks!

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